Scapegoating Posts

This post is about honing in on the specific, exact kind of loneliness you are feeling. Yes, you personally. Because if you clicked on this posts title, you likely already know that there are no one-size-fits-all solutions for isolation—n…

Can we model institutional gaslighting as a process failure of control?I recently handed my Predictive State Machine version of the Narcissistic Systems Model to the AGI Round Table to be stress-tested, analyzed, and mapped against political economy…

Do you every feel like you’re surrounded by people who make you despair at humanity? Or, that somehow, despite an obviously increasing number of shitheads, people treat you strangely when you call them out? That feeling, of having an almost t…

Welcome to part 2 of our series on how to spot a narcissistic system – this time via it’s patterns of tactics. From gaslighting, blame-shifting, triangulation and all the other famous mind games, to their less well-known cousins, like mo…

Welcome dear reader. This is the first post in a 3 part series on how to recognize a narcissistic system—be that a workplace, an institution, a family, or even a social circle. Why talk about narcissistic systems on a blog on loneliness? Bec…

Have you ever left a therapy session feeling worse than when you arrived? Have you ever felt like the therapist really wasn’t getting what was going on for you, or had somehow made you the whole problem? When that happens, it hurts. You …