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How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 3: Roles)
April 27, 2026

How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 3: Roles)

Do you every feel like you’re surrounded by people who make you despair at humanity? Or, that somehow, despite an obviously increasing number of shitheads, people treat you strangely when you call them out?That feeling, of having an almost t…
How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 2: Tactics)
April 27, 2026

How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 2: Tactics)

Welcome to part 2 of our series on how to spot a narcissistic system – this time via it’s patterns of tactics. From gaslighting, blame-shifting, triangulation and all the other famous mind games, to their less well-known cousins, like mo…
How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 1: Values)
April 27, 2026

How to Spot a Narcissistic System: The Architecture of Loneliness (Part 1: Values)

Welcome dear reader. This is the first post in a 3 part series on how to recognize a narcissistic system—be that a workplace, an institution, a family, or even a social circle.Why talk about narcissistic systems on a blog on loneliness?Bec…